So, when it comes to parenting, I like thinking about it more as “training” kids rather than just “raising” them. Think of it like this: “raising” is taking care of them, making sure they have what they need, and helping them grow up safely. It’s super important, no doubt, but it can sometimes be more reactive—responding to what’s happening at the moment.

On the flip side, “training” your kids is about being more proactive and intentional. You’re not just waiting for stuff to happen and then dealing with it; you’re actively teaching them values, skills, and knowledge that they’ll need down the road. It’s like preparing them for life’s big adventure.

With “training,” you’re helping them build good habits, think critically, solve problems, and understand their emotions. It’s about setting them up to smoothly handle whatever comes their way, whether it’s school stuff or social situations. You’re not just getting them through the day-to-day but setting them up for long-term awesomeness.

Now, don’t get me wrong. “Raising” and “training” aren’t mutually exclusive—you can absolutely do both! The idea is to be more intentional with your parenting. Like, when your kid messes up, instead of just saying “don’t do that,” you help them understand why it’s not a good idea and what they can do differently next time.

Consistency is key here. Set clear expectations and stick to them. Be a good role model, show them by doing, not just telling. Give them feedback that helps them grow, and provide plenty of chances for them to practice and learn.

In the end, “training” your kids means you’re empowering them to become independent, confident, and well-rounded adults. It’s a lot of effort, but totally worth it when you see them handle life’s ups and downs with grace and resilience.